No Eye Contact
I guess it’s a New York-North Jersey thing, but when walking through the park or on the street, few people, if any, are willing to make eye contact. It really struck me the other day as I was doing my morning walk at the local park. As I passed people by, I would look towards them to say, “Good Morning,” but only a small handful of them would actually look my way. With the large majority of them, I could not make any eye contact at all. It was as if we were all living in our own little worlds; as if the others around us did not exist. (Of course, our iPods stuck in our ears don’t help at all!) I know I might be the odd-man-out, but as I pass by people in the park or on the street, I tend to like to make eye contact and greet them. It’s not about the greeting itself but the fact that it causes us to feel like a community. We connect to each other as we say as simple, “Good morning” or “Hello.” Not only that, but when we acknowledge each other, we are reminded that the